理 how to deal with 理

by **♥ heart ♥** Sat Apr 04, 2009 3:12 pm

The loss
of a loved one is the hardest thing that you will ever have to go
through in your life, and you might find that at many times you feel
hopeless. There are lights at the end of every darkness in life and the
death of a loved one is no exception.

When u lost a friend, a partner (not always because of death - maybe
just because of leaving) or your parents, grandparents, etc.

There are many ways to deal with this situation- one of that is to write things down:

When you are looking at words you have posted somewhere in memory maybe
of your loved one, a poem is something that you might want to think
about and share it with others.

There have been many writings that have been written in the past for
many situations. There are like poems for the loss of parents and
grandparents, or children, or friends.
Each memory poem has the potential to speak to your heart and to the
hearts of the people who have lost loved ones. A memorial poem is
designed to help with the coping process.

When you are thinking about to write that down, there are a couple things that you want to remember.

A well-chosen writing can be something that you hang on to for a long
time. You may want to consider printing copies of the this writing to
keep and to give to others who want to keep it. By having this words
with you and keeping it along with photos of your loved one either in a
scrap book or on an online memorial-site, you have words that you can
always go back to for a memory. Writing down feelings either in prose
or in poetry is highly recommended as a way to deal with severe grief.

It is by dealing with the grief that comes with losing a loved one that
you can truly come out on the other side and learn to live your life
without this person. And you know..................life must and will
always go on………even if we dont like it at this Moment.