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by **♥ heart ♥** Sat Apr 04, 2009 2:40 pm

Today I'm
back to discuss a certain topic with you all and I would like each one
of you to share her or his own perspective. Okay here we go........

庭 do you believe that your position in your family affects the way 庭 1217606843514

"Be yourself, the world worships the original", this an adage widely
known. What it basically means is that you should behave normally and
be yourself, don't change who you are for any one and our true friends
are those who are aware of our follies yet they accept and love us any
way.

Every individual is unique in her or his own way and you all long to be
accepted and treated kindly. However we are sometimes placed it a
situation where in we find ourselves compared to others who are far
more successful, beautiful , rich ….. etc.

What I want to focus on is in our social life especially in our family
life. Some of you are spoiled by your parents, others a mistreated and
some are dismissed like they do not even exist.
The reason may be that they are considered to be that black sheep in
the family because they are low achievers , trouble makers or simply
rebellious!!
What I want to discuss with you is that :
do you believe that your position in your family affects the way you parent treat you?

For example some parents like boys others like girls; some treat the
first born child better then their other children, some parents spoil
the last born.
Some of my friends believe that the kids born in the middle are just
lo0o0o0ost and not cared for as much as the first and last born.

So what do you think. Are these opinions really true?
When you reply tell me if you are the first born or last or are you just stuck in the middle!!
Explain how does that make you feel...........
thank u sooooooooo much